DECADANCE SWINGERS CLUB

Club Rules and Your Safety

Respect. Consent. Communication. Enjoyment.

Welcome to Decadance Swingers Club, Rochdale.

Whether you are an experienced visitor to the lifestyle, exploring BDSM and kink, or visiting a swingers club for the first time, we want you to feel welcome, comfortable and safe.

Some guests visit to socialise, meet new people and enjoy the atmosphere. Others may choose to explore intimacy or play with people they connect with. Both are equally welcome.

These rules are here to protect our guests, our staff and our venue. We ask everyone to use common sense, respect one another and take responsibility for their own behaviour.

By entering Decadance, you agree to follow these rules and any reasonable instructions given by our staff.

1. Respect, consent and personal boundaries

Consent is essential. No exceptions.

Never assume that someone wants to be touched, kissed, approached sexually or involved in a scene.

Always obtain clear consent before initiating physical or sexual contact.

Consent must be freely given, informed and specific to the activity. Consent to one thing does not mean consent to everything.

Anyone can change their mind or withdraw consent at any time. Stop immediately if someone withdraws consent, asks you to stop or appears uncomfortable.

Silence, uncertainty, nervous laughter or a lack of resistance must never be treated as consent.

Being naked, flirting, dancing, using the playrooms or attending a swingers club does not mean someone is available for sexual contact.

Respect personal space. Ask before touching someone, even if you believe the contact is friendly.

If someone declines an invitation or says no, accept their answer gracefully. Do not pressure them, repeatedly ask, follow them around or attempt to change their mind.

Consent applies equally to all guests and staff.

Paying an entry fee does not entitle anyone to another person's attention, affection or sexual activity. Sex is never guaranteed or expected.

2. Respecting private play and other guests

Do not interrupt, touch, join or interfere with a scene unless you have been invited and the people involved have agreed.

Do not assume that watching a scene is acceptable simply because a room is accessible. Respect any privacy arrangements and the wishes of those playing.

If you wish to watch, ask permission where appropriate and respect the answer.

Do not crowd people who are playing, make unwanted comments or attempt to direct someone else's scene.

Respect aftercare. People may need time, privacy and space following a scene. Do not interrupt or pressure them to move unless there is an immediate safety concern.

Do not follow guests between rooms or repeatedly approach someone who has made it clear they want to be left alone.

Do not discriminate against, intimidate, harass or deliberately embarrass another guest because of their gender, sexuality, identity, appearance, disability, experience or personal preferences.

If you are unsure whether your presence or behaviour is welcome, ask or give people space.

3. Photography, phones and privacy

Discretion is important to our guests.

Mobile phones and recording devices must be used in accordance with Decadance's phone and privacy policy.

Photography, video recording, audio recording and livestreaming of guests or staff are prohibited unless expressly authorised by the club and everyone affected has given informed permission.

Never photograph or record another person without their permission, even if you believe they are outside the frame or cannot be identified.

Do not share another guest's identity, images, contact details or private information without their permission.

Do not disclose who you have seen at Decadance or discuss another guest's private activities outside the club without their permission.

Do not use another person's contact details for unsolicited messages or unwanted advances.

If you have a concern or need to contact the club, please use the club's official contact channels rather than sharing private staff contact details.

4. Alcohol, drugs and responsible behaviour

Guests must not arrive under the influence of illegal drugs or alcohol to the extent that they are intoxicated or unable to participate safely.

Illegal drugs and other prohibited substances are not permitted on the premises.

Only drinks purchased from the Decadance bar may be consumed in the club.

Staff may refuse alcohol service, stop an activity or require a guest to leave if their behaviour or condition creates a safety concern.

Do not initiate or continue sexual activity or a BDSM scene with someone who is too intoxicated, impaired or otherwise unable to give informed consent.

Alcohol is never an excuse for harassment, unwanted contact, aggression or other misconduct.

If you are unsure whether someone is comfortable or able to consent, stop and seek assistance from a member of staff.

Guests are expected to remain responsible for their behaviour throughout their visit.

5. Playrooms and shared facilities

We have a range of facilities for guests to enjoy. Please use them responsibly and respect the needs of others.

Follow the dress code for each area of the club. Full nudity is not permitted in the bar area. Guests entering the upstairs playrooms to play or watch must follow the club's dress down requirements.

Keep playrooms clean and hygienic. Dispose of rubbish and used protective materials in the appropriate bins.

Cleaning products are provided in designated play areas. Please clean the equipment and surfaces you have used and leave the space ready for the next guests.

Do not leave bodily fluids, used condoms or other waste for another guest or member of staff to clear up.

Respect the venue and its equipment. Do not use furniture, fixtures or anchor points for activities they are not designed or approved to support.

Ask management for permission before undertaking activities that could damage the venue or require special arrangements.

Do not use a play space to store personal belongings or occupy it for extended socialising when other guests need the space.

Allow people to complete their scenes and aftercare without unnecessary interruption.

Do not lock playroom doors or otherwise prevent staff from accessing an area when access is required for safety.

Follow all posted instructions and any additional restrictions applying to specific rooms or equipment.

Report damaged equipment, missing cleaning supplies or any other safety concern to a member of staff.

6. Sauna and Jacuzzi

Please use the facilities responsibly and follow all instructions displayed in the relevant areas.

Follow all posted hygiene and safety instructions.

Shower before using shared facilities where required.

Do not use the sauna if you are too intoxicated or otherwise unable to do so safely.

Respect the privacy, comfort and personal boundaries of everyone using these facilities.

Do not engage in behaviour that creates a safety or hygiene risk.

Report damaged equipment, spills or any other safety concern to a member of staff immediately.

Important notice for this event: The Jacuzzi is unavailable. Please respect this restriction and follow any signage or instructions from staff. The Jacuzzi's unavailability for this event does not necessarily mean it is permanently closed.

7. Health and safer sex

Take responsibility for discussing sexual health, contraception and barrier protection with your partners.

Condoms are available free of charge. Their use is encouraged.

Agree on protection and boundaries before sexual activity begins.

Never remove, damage or interfere with a condom or other agreed protective measure without the informed agreement of everyone involved.

Stop immediately if an agreed boundary or protection arrangement is breached.

Do not participate in activities that you believe put yourself or others at unacceptable risk.

Dispose of used condoms and other protective materials hygienically.

Seek assistance from staff if you have a safety concern or need help.

8. Looking after one another

We want guests to feel able to ask for help without embarrassment or fear of being dismissed.

If someone makes you uncomfortable, you can say no, move away or ask a member of staff for support.

Report unwanted attention, harassment, suspected non consensual activity, unsafe behaviour or other concerns to staff as soon as possible.

You do not need to confront the person involved yourself.

If you witness something concerning, please report it rather than assuming somebody else will.

Staff may speak to the people involved, separate guests, stop a scene or take other appropriate action to protect everyone's safety.

Reports will be taken seriously and handled discreetly where reasonably possible.

We cannot promise absolute confidentiality in every circumstance, particularly where a serious safety concern or legal obligation requires further action.

Please give staff the information they need to understand a concern, while respecting the privacy of everyone involved.

If there is an immediate danger, alert staff straight away.

9. Respect for staff and the venue

Treat staff and other guests with courtesy and respect.

Follow reasonable instructions given by staff, particularly those relating to safety, consent, hygiene and the operation of the venue.

Aggression, threats, intimidation, harassment, deliberate damage and abusive behaviour will not be tolerated.

Offering or requesting payment for sexual services is prohibited.

Do not interfere with venue equipment, safety systems, CCTV or emergency exits.

Familiarise yourself with the nearest emergency exit and follow staff instructions during an emergency.

Report hazards, damaged equipment and accidents as soon as possible.

Do not attempt to bypass a staff decision by asking another member of the team for permission to do something that has already been refused. Management will determine the appropriate decision.

10. Entry, safety and enforcement

Decadance reserves the right to refuse entry, stop an activity, remove a guest from the premises or exclude them from future visits where appropriate.

Depending on the seriousness of the incident, action may include:

A reminder or warning for a minor issue.

Immediate intervention to stop unsafe or inappropriate behaviour.

Removal from the premises for serious or repeated breaches.

A ban from future visits where justified.

Contacting the police or other appropriate authorities where necessary.

Serious breaches of consent, harassment, violence, deliberate safety violations or other significant misconduct may result in immediate removal without a prior warning.

The decision on appropriate action rests with the club's management, taking account of the circumstances and the safety of those involved.

Paying an entry fee does not give anyone the right to disregard these rules or refuse reasonable safety instructions.

11. Food, drink and general housekeeping

Please dispose of rubbish in the bins provided and leave social areas tidy.

Treat the venue's furniture, facilities and equipment with care.

Follow staff instructions regarding food, drinks and any areas where these are restricted.

Report spills, breakages and other hazards promptly.

Do not bring prohibited substances or items into the venue.

Respect the comfort of other guests and help maintain a clean, welcoming environment.

12. A final word

Decadance is a place to socialise, explore, make connections and enjoy yourself at your own pace.

You never have to play, get naked or participate in anything you do not want to do. You are equally entitled to enjoy a purely social visit.

We ask you to look after yourself, respect other people and help us maintain an environment where everyone can feel welcome.

Be respectful. Communicate clearly. Obtain consent. Look after one another.

Enjoy Decadance.