Contact DECADANCE Rochdale

Contact form for general enquiries (usually answered within 24 hours). We ask that you read the FAQs, Safety at DECADANCE, and How to get here pages of this website as the majority of questions we get asked are answered within these three pages, and you obviously don't have to wait for a response.

As stated on the FAQ page WE NEVER GIVE INFORMATION ON WHO IS IN THE CLUB OR WHO HAS BEEN IN THE CLUB. We do not usually have guest lists and thus can never predict how busy the club can be on any given day/night, every day/week is different. WE WILL NEVER GIVE OUT SENSITIVE BUSINESS INFO BY EMAIL.

WE REPLY TO ALL MESSAGES, IF YOU'VE NOT RECIEVED A REPLY WITHIN 48 HOURS IT'S USUALLY BECAUSE THE EMAIL ADDRESS HAS BEEN ENTERED INCORRECTLY. PLEASE RESUBMIT REQUEST. THANKS

90% OF THE QUESTIONS WE ARE ASKED ARE ANSWERED IN THE BOX BELOW.

What time are you open? What events are on? How much is entry?

Our opening times are clearly written below, towards the bottom of this page. All events are listed here. If you click on the event (where it says 'click here'), all the information on dress, entry prices etc will be on that page.

Do I need membership? Do I need to book? Do I need to register? Do I need to be on a guestlist? Do I need ID?

The answer to all these questions is NO. ID is only required to prove you are over 18 if we think you look under 25. We are not a members club. Just turn up. Pay on the door with cash or card.

We do reserve the right to refuse entry. We will refuse anyone who we suspect to be drunk, under the influence of drugs, anyone who looks under 25 that doesnt have ID to prove they are over 18, anyone who is disrespectful or we believe is not able to understand or will not follow the club rules.

Can single men come on ***** night?

99% of the time, yes. We very occasionally hold couples only nights. If this is the case, on the event info this will be clearly stated and there will be no price shown for single men. If there is a price shown for single men then obviously single men can come. Again there is no need to book or tell us you are coming, just turn up.

I'm/We're nervous, its my/our first time visiting

We can't drag you here. The hardest part is turning up at the club in the first place. Before you visit, please read our FAQ page and our rules, so you can decide whether you think the club will be for you.

Once you are here we make it easy for you. We have no external signage saying we are a swingers club. People passing by have no idea what the club is. We just look like a closed down pub from the outside, with the exception of lights on the balcony (deliberately so to maintain discretion).

Once we've taken your entry fee we will offer you a drink and someone will show you round and answer any questions you have. (feel free to ask anything, we are not easily shocked!). We will also introduce you to other customers so you are not left awkwardly in a corner. There us never any pressure to 'play' or do anything in the club. You are welcome to come for a purely social visit.

We dont allow people to come in for a trial or a tour, anyone entering the club has to pay the appropriate door fee. (Single ladies are currently always free). Obviously it can be off putting for other customers if people are coming in and just walking round.